Darlings, buckle up as we embark on a journey through the tangled webs of patriarchy and its feeble attempt to snuff out our fabulousness. Let’s get one thing straight (pun absolutely intended) – while patriarchy might love to parade as the champion of masculinity, it’s just serving up a cheap imitation. Genuine masculinity? It’s as dazzling as a disco ball, as diverse as our community, and as authentic as our self-expressions.
The Fabulous Facade: When Patriarchy Tried (and Failed) to Cage Masculinity – by Maxwell Alexander, Artist/Activist, MA, BFA, Certified Fitness Trainer, Bodybuilding and Sports Nutrition Coach
1. The Technicolor Tapestry of True Masculinity:
What’s real masculinity, you ask? Picture a world where men can be as glittering or as gritty as they wish, where tears are as manly as a lumberjack’s beard, and where the spectrum of emotions isn’t confined to a grayscale.
2. Patriarchy’s Drab Definition:
Oh, honey, patriarchy tried to put masculinity in a box – a boring, monochrome box. Strong but silent? Dominant and only straight? Please, that’s so last century! Why limit ourselves to one flavor when there’s a whole masculinity buffet out there?
3. Gays, Glitter, and Guts:
Enter the fabulously gay brigade, each of us challenging the drudgery of patriarchy. If being fabulous and gay means breaking their mold, then, darling, let’s shatter it into a million sparkling pieces!
4. Vulnerability is the New Vogue:
Patriarchy wants men to bottle up their feelings? Ugh, how passé! Embracing vulnerabilities isn’t just in vogue; it’s essential. With the alarming rates of male mental health issues, it’s time to strut into the spotlight and talk about it.
5. From Brooding to Boas – Male Bonding Reimagined:
The brotherhood in patriarchy’s world? Yawn! We champion bonds that celebrate shimmering connections, unbridled joy, and the kind of deep talks you’d have after three margaritas.
6. The Audacious Aftermath:
Darling, when you cage a peacock, you miss out on its radiant display. When patriarchy stifles genuine masculinity, society loses out on all the vibrancy men have to offer. And trust us, we have A LOT to offer.
Conclusion:
Sashay away, patriarchy! The fight isn’t against men, it’s for the authentic, radiant, fabulous man waiting to break free. Unleashing genuine masculinity doesn’t dim anyone’s light; instead, it ensures that every man, no matter how he identifies, can shine brighter and fiercer. So here’s to redefining, redesigning, and re-celebrating masculinity. And remember, always keep it fabulous! 💅🌈✨
